When women date with intent and focus and use their dating time to ask pointed questions about a man’s past, present, goals and habits – these guys get upset! They claim to feel bullied and attacked when women ask questions to weed them out.
But isn’t that the point of dating – to find the right fit? Someone who is not only in the same book but the same page as you so that you can hit the ground running and build a legacy for your family and children?
Why would a woman spend her precious time investing in a man who has few if any of the foundational things she seeks in a partner just because he wants a chance? Why should she set herself up for STRUGGLE LOVE with a man who doesn’t meet her standards?
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Love PAYS the bills. We need to rethink how we define “love”. Love makes sure your household is provided for and has everything they need. How can someone say they love and not be doing their very best to make sure their household is provided for??
Deborrah Cooper Love does NO HARM to a neighbor (Romans 13:10). Love is an action word. I don’t trust ANY “love” that doesn’t motivate a person to do right by the recipients of that love. If you’re being harmed, you’re not being loved. Period.
Love alone doesn’t do shit. No redefining of it required. You FEEL love, that’s it. Actions and behaviors are the real deal. Plenty of women murdered and beaten by men who LOVE them. Plenty of women and children saved and protected by complete strangers who’ve never seen their face before. I pay zero attention to love, and focus solely on deeds.
Lmao a lot of the bm I’ve met are mentally ill… they talk all this stuff about providers then turn around and make you feel bad cuz you don’t want to give them any money 🙄 straight trifling! And women fall for this stuff… that’s why I’m over black love which in most cases is struggle love anyway… I’m cool ✋🏾
how does that work if YOU are “the provider” but I am providing the provider with money? Huh?
Since he thinks that all a relationship is a investment of time — that is the very reason why women need to stay far far away from this man. He is a big fat red flag.
Most of these BM that say ‘choose better’ don’t really want women to ‘choose better’ b/c it will eliminate the majority of the men out here. They don’t want to be denied access to you and your body. They believe in the first instance that they deserve and are entitled to you — siply b/ they want to be with you. Somehow you as a woman are suppose to acquiecse to these men and their needs and wants
On an initial phone conversation, one clown told me, “I’m interviewing you for a job”. Lmao I never talked to him again.
+Deborrah Cooper Deb, he was convicted felon and sporadically has employment. He didn’t even have a car. In the past, I would “give men with convictions” a chance due to most of the men in my family but now…not anymore.
Sheeittt, you posed to ask him what is the weekly salary and what is included in your benefit and retirement package.