One of the ways to get your relationship back to the way it was in the beginning, is to take control of how much attraction you are allowing her to feel for you.
For example: If you’ve gotten into the habit of not initiating affection, or just being neutral around her like a friend, then she’s not going to feel the butterflies and passion that naturally happens when there is a lot of hugging, kissing and touching.
Of course, if you are many years into a relationship or marriage, you might feel as though you and her have passed that stage and it’s more about being friends now.
You can take that path if you want to, but it won’t lead to feelings of sexual and romantic love.
You will just feel like friends and after a while, one of you may get bored and stray or initiate a break up or divorce.
So, what should you do instead?
Focus on the fact that there are so many couples out there who fall more and more in love with each other over time.
Their love doesn’t fade away.
Either does the sexual attraction.
How do they do it?
There are so many ways that I can teach you to build on the respect, sexual attraction and love in your relationship or marriage, but one way is the example I give in this video.
It’s about not being afraid to re-initiate the kind of interactions that you and her used to have.
Be warned though…
If she has fallen into the habit of not reciprocating your attempts at being affectionate, she may initially act like that when you begin to try.
So, you have to be prepared for that and ensure that you don’t get angry, annoyed or lose confidence and give up.
Be prepared to handle a bit of resistance from her initially if there is any and she will either quickly warm up to that kind of behavior between you and her again, or it may take a few days or a couple of weeks.
Whatever the case is for you, if you want the relationship to go back to the way it was, you have to be the emotionally stronger one as the man.
It’s essential that you have that emotional strength, so she can follow along with the direction that you are taking the relationship again.
When she does, she will realize that she feels so much happier being more loving and affectionate and you can build on that from there.
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